Unspoken Loss: Men, Infidelity, and Disenfranchised Grief
$14.95
REVIEWS:
❝… Infidelity, despite its pain and complexity, does not have to be the end of the line for couples. Being anything but Pollyannaish about what it takes to do the difficult and sometimes excruciatingly unbearable healing work in the aftermath of infidelity and being acutely sensitive to the landmine of triggering retraumatization, in this book, Elliott holds out a vision for a hopeful future to which couples can strive and attain….❞
—Vicki L. Shemin, J.D., LICSW, ACSW, Family law attorney and clinical social worker at Fields and Dennis, LLP in Wellesley, Massachusetts
Description
Unspoken Loss: Men, Infidelity, and Disenfranchised Grief addresses the realities of infidelity with a sharp focus on how men who commit infidelities can experience personal healing. It is the first book to address all three topics of masculinity, infidelity, and disenfranchised grief together. And they must be addressed together for healing for both partners—betrayer and betrayed—to occur.
Disenfranchised grief is grief that a person feels cannot be spoken. When grief is not spoken, especially during infidelity recovery, the experience can often be misunderstood by the betrayed partner as resistance to change, lack of compliance with the goals of recovery, anger, or ambivalence. This book helps both partners understand and identify the disenfranchised grief that is often present in infidelity. That’s why it can help build a stronger and more effective future for both partners.
Sexual and emotional infidelities can happen in good relationships and good relationships can heal from infidelities—if both partners are working on the healing together. Both partners are affected. Both partners are injured. Both partners struggle. However, the journey to healing is different for each partner as they work to heal different emotional wounds—that’s what this book details. Successfully healing after infidelity allows for a more secure relationship supported by greater insight, effective communication, and connected intimacy.
About the Author
Dr. Kronenfeld is an internationally known author, sex therapist, educator, TEDx speaker, and yoga teacher. His work has focused on helping people find, maintain, and grow their best relationships even when faced with the challenges of infertility, infidelity, challenged intimacy, parenting, and other complex life situations. He is a frequent guest on podcasts and other media outlets, talking about the realities of relationships. As a university educator, he teaches sex and gender in China and the U.S. at the master’s and doctoral levels. Elliott is often on the road giving keynote talks and lectures at government agencies, universities, national organizations, conferences, and private practices on topics that relate to the human experience. A lover of travel, Elliott has been on every continent and brings his cultural experience and sensitivity to his work because he believes the human experience has commonality and uniqueness at the same time. He currently lives in Maine with his family where he is a yoga practitioner and is constantly planning his next journey somewhere across the globe.
Additional information
| Weight | 9.008 oz |
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| Dimensions | 9 × 6 × 0.39140 in |
